Helen Keller once said “the best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even heard, but must be felt with the heart” and that is why this article is based on love and how to win over that special someone with these tips.
- Be A Good Listener
Ladies like men who will actually give them a listening ear to their problems. Giving them this listening ear and helping with great suggestion gives you one step ahead of any other guy who is also in pursuit. Try as much as possible not to push her to make a decision because she just wants you to listen to her.
- Compliment Her
Who doesn’t like a compliment once in a while..? Naturally ladies are moved by what they hear no matter how good looking you are. Just make sure your compliment is sincere and genuine. If she finds out that your praises are fake, she would fast delete you from her books and would not even want to see your shadow as compliments means a lot to them. Make sure you flatter her and you will not regret it.
- Make Sure You Also Give Her You Attention
I know this is going to be a bit tough because we are in a world of technology where communication has been made a lot more easier. If you really want this girl to fall in love with you then make sure you are not on phone or playing any video game when she is around. You must keep all eyes on her and avoid girls walking in and out of your room.
It is going to go bad if you can’t give her your attention.
- Tell Her How Much You Like Spending Time With Her
This is the part where you tell her you enjoy her company. It can be through a text message of even when you are with here but you should also consider the timing before telling her. Some ladies like to be complimented on social media and if she is the type you can go ahead and do so but she isn’t then don’t go there. Know what she wants before you make the move and in that way she is going to know you are serious about her.
- Make Sure To Nurture The Love
You need to start taking care of some little things. It could be a surprise or even chocolate. Take her out once in a while and don’t wait until it’s a special occasion before you start expressing how you feel. Doing this will honestly make her feel loved and appreciated and that is how you start making her fall in love with you.
- Be Neat And Clean
Ladies like clean and neat guys. There is no way a lady will fall in love with a guy who doesn’t like bathing, mouth and body odour. Make sure you look good and take absolute good care of yourself because girls say one thing and mean the other. Having body odour can just kill the whole vibe.
- Be Funny But Not Too Much
Making a girl smile or laugh shows how light hearted and funny you are. This also sends her a signal telling her she can really rely on you in times when she is bored but make sure you don’t over do it because she might see you as a joker and not take you serious.
- Stay Away From Her Once In A While
The last thing you want to do is show her you have nothing but her. It will make you somehow insecure and I don’t think you would want that. You also have to make her feel a bit of your absence even though it is important you show her how special she is to you. Hang out with your friends and family and she will start running into your arms because will also start working for your attention.
- Surprise Her
Taking time to take her off guard with a message during the day will put a smile on her face. Send her a lovely message whilst she is at work and let her know you are thinking about her. This gesture will send her reminders that you do think about her and that you are a man that truly deserves her attention.
- Be Caring
This goes out to say that you need to do whatever it takes to make her feel better and happy when she is down. You need to show her you will take care of her and in doing that you need to start proving it to clear her doubts.
There are so many points to consider but I just decided to limit myself to these ones. Kindly take each of these steps into consideration and don’t forget to follow her lead. Try and show her your confidence and create a plan to truly make her fall madly in love with you without taking her for a fool.