Nollywood Actress, Tonto Dikeh has finally decided to forgive her ex husband who she once held a serious grudge against. She has decided to once again open the emotional wounds she suffered in her abusive relationship with her ex husband and son of Former Politician Olakunle Churchill.
She said she has finally come to terms with the fact that they have a son together from their failed marriage so there is no need to hold a grudge against him so she has forgiven him.
Speaking in an Instalive video with journalist Dele Momodou as she talk about the Important of Forgiveness. She said: “A man I love and respected always, talked to me about forgiveness and I have come to realize that forgiveness is not about the nest person. I known that forgiveness is not about the nest person but the explanation I got recently really wowed me.”
It says I have forgiven you not because you have to be forgiven, I have forgiven you because I do not wat to put myself in a place of Stagnation when it comes to growth, I do not want to put myself in a place of stagnation when it comes to love, I dont wat to put myself in a place of warship, progressing , my career.
“Forgiveness is a whole lot and I only just realized that the Bible says that if we do not forgive, God cannot forgive us. All these things are in bible but it never really made an impact to me until someone really explained it. So today I would tell you that for me it comes really easy. I forgive alot but I just dont like to get provoked by the things that you do after it. I think forgiveness is an essential for ones growth”